Your outside world is reflecting back to you your inside vibration. If you are not experiencing what you want in your life, instead of trying to fix things around you, you will have to go within to achieve lasting results.
Just as a mirror shows an image back to you, your beliefs reflect back to you in your experiences of life. It is not what is happening around you that determines your experience of it, it is the perspective you have of it. Your belief system is the control center. Every choice you make, every decision, large or small, all add up to what you will experience. Be mindful that every choice will be taken into account.
Being mindful is the key. Awareness of your thoughts and behaviors, and choosing those that take you tn the direction you want to go is a must. What can you do today to become more pro-active in your life experience?