Appreciation of self and others, self love, self care. compassion, are the most important aspects you can nurture. These are the closest vibration to Source energy. Through these you are aligned with the soul’s agenda and thus this is where your power to create your heart’s desires lies. This is the path of least resistance.
When you judge yourself, others, events, situations with criticism you are no longer aligned with Source. Put your attention on this and see things change in your favor.