Your happiness does not depend on what others do, but only upon your own vibrational balance. And the happiness of others does not depend on you, but only upon their vibrational balance, for the way anyone feels, in any moment, is only about their own mix of Energies. The way you feel is simply, clearly, and always the indicator of the vibrational balance between your desires and your vibrational offering, which, from your vantage point, you have launched.
Once you understand your own Emotional Guidance System, you will never again be confused about where you are in relationship to where you want to be. You will feel, with each thought that your offer, whether you are moving closer to, or further from, your desired outcome. If you are using any other influence as your source of guidance, you will get lost and go off track, for no others understand the distance between where you are and where you want to be.
When you give your attention to something that you desire and say “yes”, you are including it in your vibration. But when you say “no” to something you do not want, you are also including it in your vibration. When you give it no attention, you are excluding it, but you cannot exclude anything you are giving your attention to, (even by saying no) because your attention to it includes it in your vibration every time, without exception.
Once you come to understand this and live using this system of thought, you will be the conscious creator of your world.
from my mentor Abraham/Hicks